How Do You Change your Life?

by Jan Ashby

You may be wondering, “How do you change your life?”  The very fact you are asking this question indicates you want a better life.  Yet you are wondering how to begin.

 

Books that Will Change Your Life

Well, the first thing is a wonderful book called Finding Your Own North Star.  THis book is amazing and I HAVE read it; it helps you peel back the layers, and figure out if you are committing

self-sabotage

 

 

That is, if you are somehow keeping yourself from true success, due to emotional pain. You can change you life for the better, and gain success online – but only once you have done the work via self-help tests, and made an effort to know yourself and your inner demons (gain perspective), so that you can move ahead on your true path (North Star helps one uncover this).

There are reasons why human beings fail to find the success they deserve.  They may feel that they do not deserve it – so they derail success (self-sabotage) in some way.  There are good examples of this in the book- for instance:

 

 

Simon likes his marketing job, but is experiencing a lack of success.  Now, he is ready to quit.  I ask him, “Imagine your most fabulous life – if money was no object, describe how your happiest week would go.”  Simon says, “I would have a different car every day of the week, I’d go to my job, work, come home & have dinner & then go to sleep.”

I reply in astonishment, Is that the best you can come up with?

It turns out, Simon was severely limiting his dreams because he had been deeply hurt. His girlfriend had been killed in a traffic accident, and he was suppressing his feelings about it; he hadn’t shared with anyone just how much he had loved her, so in short the healing process never began for him – once he opened up to me and shared his feelings of loss and despair, his healing could start and Simon could begin anew – his dreams of a new, and better future could take hold.

 

Do you see what happened here – Simon had been “stuck in the past” because he had never opened up & shared his feelings with anyone.  Are you doing this?  Most adults have some pain or hurt from the past that they are repressing.  But don’t despair – the self-help tests in Finding Your Own North Star are comprehensive, and will “light the way” toward a better understanding of your inner self & why you do some of the self-destructive things you do.

 

It is worth examining.  Did you know you can USE your pain to propel yourself forward & achieve great things?

 

 

Have a Breakthrough & Then Lead Others

And once you have had a breakthrough, you can then begin to help others.   You can lead others, and be empathetic toward others.  Show them that you understand, and know where they’re coming from; endeavor to help them.  This is how you build your team.

 

And because you’ve put in the effort to understand yourself, you KNOW the process, and can use this experience to counsel people interested in having a home business

 

 

One of the things that is so important for the home business entrepreneur is knowing SEO tactics (search engine optimization).  Tackling this is quite an endeavor, and a challenge.

To discover more about SEO,  I recommend reading Jeff Bullas‘ stuff.

 

 

As far as the question “how do you change your life“, there is not an easy fix.  Yet it is doable; you must examine yourself & your past choices.  Examine which “fork in the road” you took on Life’s major occasions.  See if self-sabotage was at play.  This is what the book Finding Your Own North Star  helps you to do.

 

And for Goal setting >>  SEE  Goal-buddy.com

If you use the tool in conjunction with Finding Yr Own North Star,  you’ll  definitely go places !

 

 

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>>Further Reading:  Leadership Qualities

 

 

 

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