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Books that Will Change Your Life<\/h2>\n
<\/p>\n <\/p>\n That is, if you are somehow keeping yourself from true success, due to emotional pain. You can change you life<\/strong> for the better, and gain success<\/span> online – but only once you have done the work via self-help tests<\/strong>, and made an effort to know yourself and your inner demons (gain perspective), so that you can move ahead<\/span> on your true path (North Star helps one uncover this<\/em>).<\/p>\n There are reasons<\/span> why human beings fail to find the success they deserve.\u00a0 They may feel that they do not deserve it – so they derail success (self-sabotage<\/strong>) in some way.\u00a0 There are good examples of this in the book- for instance:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Success in business concept.<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n Simon likes his marketing job, but is experiencing a lack of success<\/strong>.\u00a0 Now, he is ready to quit.\u00a0 I ask him, “Imagine your most fabulous life – if money was no object, describe how your happiest week would go.”\u00a0 Simon says, “I would have a different car every day of the week, I’d go to my job, work, come home & have dinner & then go to sleep.”<\/p>\n I reply in astonishment, Is that the best you can come up with?<\/em><\/p>\n It turns out, Simon was severely limiting his dreams because he had been deeply hurt<\/em>. His girlfriend had been killed in a traffic accident, and he was suppressing his feelings about it; he hadn’t shared with anyone just how much<\/span> he had loved her, so in short the healing process never began<\/span> for him – once he opened up to me and shared his feelings of loss and despair, his healing could start and Simon could begin anew<\/em> – his dreams of a new, and better future could take hold.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you see what happened here<\/strong> – Simon had been “stuck in the past” because he had never opened up & shared his feelings with anyone.\u00a0 Are you doing this?<\/em>\u00a0 Most adults have some pain or hurt from the past that they are repressing.\u00a0 But don’t despair – the self-help tests<\/strong> in Finding Your Own North Star<\/em> are comprehensive, and will “light the way” toward a better understanding of your inner self & why you do some of the self-destructive things you do.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n It is worth examining.\u00a0 Did you know you can USE your pain<\/span> to propel yourself forward & achieve great things?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Have a Breakthrough & Then Lead Others <\/span><\/p>\n And once you have had a breakthrough, you can then begin to help others.<\/em> \u00a0 You can lead others, and be empathetic<\/strong> toward others.\u00a0 Show them that you understand, and know where they’re coming from; endeavor to help them.\u00a0 This is how you build your team.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n And because you’ve put in the effort to understand yourself, you KNOW the process, and can use this experience to counsel people interested in having a home business<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n One of the things that is so important for the home business entrepreneur<\/strong> is knowing SEO tactics<\/strong> (search engine optimization).\u00a0 Tackling this is quite an endeavor, and a challenge.<\/p>\n To discover more about SEO,\u00a0 I recommend reading Jeff Bullas<\/strong><\/a>‘ stuff.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n As far as the question “how do you change your life<\/em>“, there is not an easy fix.\u00a0 Yet it is doable; you must examine yourself<\/strong> & your past choices.\u00a0 Examine which “fork in the road” you took on Life’s major occasions.<\/em>\u00a0 See if self-sabotage<\/strong> was at play.\u00a0 This is what the book Finding Your Own North Star\u00a0 <\/em>helps you to do.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n And for Goal setting<\/strong> >>\u00a0 SEE\u00a0 Goal-buddy.com<\/p>\n If you use the tool in conjunction with Finding Yr Own North Star,\u00a0 you’ll\u00a0 definitely go places !<\/p>\n <\/p>\n JAN ASHBY Home Business Entrepreneur<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n (Skype = jalynn9<\/strong> )<\/p>\n >>Further Reading:\u00a0 Leadership Qualities<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n![\"How](\"http:\/\/ecx.images-amazon.com\/images\/I\/51685AQ2FJL._AA75_.jpg\" "\\"How")
<\/a> Well, the first thing is a wonderful book called Finding Your Own North Star<\/em>.\u00a0 THis book is amazing and I HAVE read it; it helps you peel back the layers, and figure out if you are committing<\/p>\nself-sabotage<\/h3>\n
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